SAYING NO

Life is short. We only have enough time to do things which are important to us. There is also opportunity cost to how we spend our time. Going to a night party might deprive us of hours of sleep. Saying no can be difficult. First off, someone is asking you to act. On some level […]

THE SHOCK OF KINDNESS

Sometimes I am shocked when someone is really nice to me. I think I am not the only one who feels this way. I’ve seen it on people’s faces when I have done them a kindness they didn’t expect. As a Christian Matthew 6 prevents me from talking about how I have been kind to […]

ASA

Usually when I write I have a plan. I have none today. I am going to talk about my favourite musician. I want the whole thing to come straight from my heart. As I am writing, or typing, I am listening to the track Femi Mo from her album Lucid. In the song, she speaks […]

LOVING MYSELF

My mum sent me a message this morning. She said she loves me so much and she wants me to be a great person (whatever a great person means.) So I smiled. I told her I love her too. And I really meant it. This post is very personal for me. Maybe one of the […]

WHAT I HAVE BEEN UP TO

It’s been a long time since I wrote anything. I am embarrassed. The reason I haven’t been writing is…laziness. That’s why I am embarrassed. After not writing for a long time, I thought the website package I bought had expired. But I checked a few days ago, and realized it had been auto-renewed. I remember […]

Becoming

I get these ideas when I am riding my bicycle. Riding my bicycle is not the only time I get ideas. I mean, I also get ideas when I am in between being asleep and awake. This may sound strange but I have made a lot of decisions in this state. Very serious decisions. I […]

How to Read a Book in One Day: The Technique

We all know reading is important. I knew it even when I hated. I happen to love reading now, so it’s easy for me to stay with a book for a long time. I am kind of a loner too, so books are my constant companions. This post is to show you the techniques I […]

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20 Things I Am Grateful For

I am starting a new year. In this post, I will be looking only at the things in my life I am grateful for. One time watching the GaryVee show on Youtube, he did a thought experiment that brought things into perspective. It went like this: imagine that one day you come home to meet […]